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Be the Woman You Want to Be by Elisabeth Wilson, Infinite Ideas

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15. What must you get? And what would be nice?

Of course you want the other person to change. Of course you want other things too. But, what changes do you insist on and what things would just be ‘nice’?

Surprisingly, a good way to have it your way is to be more flexible and consider the options a little more. More options: more flexibility. More flexibility: better chance of having it your way.

When we are influencing somebody – perhaps to encourage them to let us borrow their amazing SLR digital camera for our trip to South America or to get them to stop playing loud music on a Sunday morning – we of course know what we want: the camera; the silence; the camera in our bag; the music off. But what happens if that’s not possible? We can’t ...

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