59. Sleep is the new sex – honest!
I know a woman who tried to convince her lover that the really happening people were giving up sex in favour of sleep. But he wasn’t buying it and neither am I!
It’s not of course the end of a relationship if you go some time with a lacklustre or indeed non-existent love life. Every relationship has its down-time. But the major worry with the tiredness reason for avoiding sex is that it gains a weird sort of reverse momentum. Keep using tiredness as an excuse and before you know it, total inertia has set in. What you need is a two-pronged attack.
First prong – Get over yourself
Having sex when you’re tired can start off indifferently and get a whole lot better. And even if it doesn’t, I’m firmly of the ...