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Be the Woman You Want to Be by Elisabeth Wilson, Infinite Ideas

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60. When your sex drives are out of sync

Looking for a mate? Choose someone with roughly the same sex drive. Oh, sorry, you thought you had.

Every relationship goes through periods when one person wants sex more than the other – you’re exhausted but your partner has one thing pretty obviously on their mind or vice versa.

Any of the following familiar?

‘I just don’t want sex any more’

This doesn’t mean that you’re always going to dread sex or that you won’t regain your libido. There’s nothing wrong with you either. What’s far more likely is that your priorities have shifted and something else – job, kids, financial worries – is draining all your juice. Or it could be that for you sex is a demonstration of your closeness, but you feel distant ...

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