61. Tantric sex
Not just a load of old joss sticks.
If you’ve absolutely had it with your partner’s idea of foreplay being a quick tap on your shoulder and a hopeful expression, then it’s time to go Tantric.
To the student of Tantra, sex is sacred, a means of accessing your spirituality and a way to meditate, transcend your problems and reach a happier more blissful state. For those of us who don’t have the time or inclination to study Tantric sex in any great depth, it can still add a lot. It teaches sex is important, and by clearing time to undergo a few of the simpler rituals you declare to each other ‘Hey, our sex life is a priority.’
Tantric sex teaches you to concentrate on your lover and on the sensations that you’re feeling. Forget ...