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Be the Woman You Want to Be by Elisabeth Wilson, Infinite Ideas

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61. Tantric sex

Not just a load of old joss sticks.

If you’ve absolutely had it with your partner’s idea of foreplay being a quick tap on your shoulder and a hopeful expression, then it’s time to go Tantric.

To the student of Tantra, sex is sacred, a means of accessing your spirituality and a way to meditate, transcend your problems and reach a happier more blissful state. For those of us who don’t have the time or inclination to study Tantric sex in any great depth, it can still add a lot. It teaches sex is important, and by clearing time to undergo a few of the simpler rituals you declare to each other ‘Hey, our sex life is a priority.’

Tantric sex teaches you to concentrate on your lover and on the sensations that you’re feeling. Forget ...

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