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Be the Woman You Want to Be by Elisabeth Wilson, Infinite Ideas

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63. Are you sexually mature?

It is big and it is clever.

I’ve got a theory about what happens when couples are no longer connecting sexually. That theory goes something like this…

Men and women may enjoy casual sex in much the same way, but when it comes to the long haul – the big relationship where the expectations and desire of each partner is that it lasts for the foreseeable future – different attitudes towards what constitutes closeness can develop over the years. I’m going to generalise like crazy, so you two might not conform to this pattern, but on the whole women seem to show their love through emotional closeness and need their partner to show them that he loves them through emotional closeness – talking, discussion, showing empathy ...

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