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Be the Woman You Want to Be by Elisabeth Wilson, Infinite Ideas

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64. What’s your lovestyle?

Learning your lovestyle can help your love life, but not as much as learning your partner’s lovestyle.

A psychologist called John A. Lee interviewed hundreds of people and concluded that there were a number of different ways of ‘being’ in a relationship. Understanding this makes it a whole lot easier to keep your sex life on course.

Lee’s book Lovestyles can supply a definitive quiz to help you recognise you and your partner’s lovestyle but this short version could give you some clues. Select the style or styles that seem more like you and your mate.

Are you eros?

  • You see someone across a room and just ‘know’ they’re for you.
  • Sexual feelings are important – love is central to your life.
  • It’s hard for you to find ...

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