6

Say it the right way

6.1 Right time, right place, right channel

Eight billion people, all different. So how do we know how to persuade that given person sitting in front of us right now? Well, all the work we’ve done in Chapters 1 through to 5 will tell us how.

The reason why our persuasion efforts usually fail is that, normally, we dive straight in with our advice, with our suggestions, with how they’re wrong – and this just doesn’t work. Sure, it’s persuaded us, but that doesn’t mean it will persuade them.

You will only change their mind if they are open to listening in the first place and if you have a solution that they are likely to accept, and all of that comes from the work done in the previous chapters.

And you also need to know how ...

Get Change Their Mind: 6 Practical Steps to Persuade Anyone Anytime now with the O’Reilly learning platform.

O’Reilly members experience books, live events, courses curated by job role, and more from O’Reilly and nearly 200 top publishers.