It’s All About Choices


“If you don’t know where you are going, you are bound to end up where you are headed.”

—Chinese Proverb

“If you don’t know where you are going, you might wind up someplace else.”

—Yogi Berra

“If we don’t change direction soon, we’ll end up where we’re going.”

—Professor Irwin Corey

This chapter is about how each individual negotiates the Compassion Cycle. Therefore, throughout the chapter, you have my permission to focus on you. Entirely. Don’t worry about anyone else.

Since this chapter is about personal choices and consequences, I’d also like to make a request. Would you please avoid applying this chapter to anyone else but yourself?

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