Dance Lessons

INDEX 209

Cotton Patch Version of the New Testament, The

(Jordan), 130–131

Couples Institute, The, 66

Covance, 106, 181

Coyote, Wile E., 23

Creativity through structure, 84–85

Cues, 86, 87, 93–95. See also Rehearsing

Cultural congruence checkpoint, 76

Daily American, 37, 55, 58, 186

D’Amelio, Tony, 68

Dance Injuries (Arnheim), 153

Dance quotient, 14

Dancing. See also Hurting; Partner style

brief description, 7

head, using to maintain partnerships,

137–141

heart, using gifts of, 129–136

as metaphor, 4–5

support generation, 139–141

Data gathering, 4–6

Decker, Sharon, 57, 97

Deloitte, Haskins and Sells, 26–27

Deloitte Touche, 27

Dirty Dancing (film), 9, 15

Disappointment, 144. See also Pain

Dowling, Jack, 65–66, 69, 192

Dramatic listening as partnering drill,

114–115

Dreams as sponsoring idea for partnership,

31–32. See also Shared vision

Dress rehearsal, 106–108

Drills. See Partnering drills

Economic reciprocity checkpoint, 79

Education and ending partnerships, 187–189

Ellis, Bob, 37, 55, 58, 186

Emotions. See also Hurting

anger, 160–163, 167

disappointment, 144

fear, 152–153, 160–163

guilt, 146–147, 153–154

head, using to maintain partnerships,

137–141

heart, using gifts of, 129–136

Empathy expression and mistake resolution, 151

Ending partnerships. See also Failed

partnerships

anticipation and applause, 190–192

brief description, 8

closure, 119, 177–181

constructive critique, 185–187

education and evaluation, 187–190

Energy required in partnering, 8–9

Esposito, Frank, 16–17, 34, 47, 110, 168

Evaluation and ending partnerships, 189–190

Exaggeration in reality practice, 109

Executive Forum, 75

Exercise, heel or flats, 14. See also

Partnership test

Exit interview, 182

Expectations for the best, 103

Facciuto, Eugene “Luigi”, 134, 140

Failed partnerships. See also Ending partnerships

closure’s dark side, 177–181

lessons learned, 181–182

and partnership test, 61–62

Failure, fear of, 152–153

Faith as gift, 132

Fantasy work in reality practice, 109–111

Fear

and anger, 160–163

of failure/success, 152–153

Federal Aviation Administration, 116

Feedback. See also Communication

and conditioning, 86, 87

effective use of, 95–97

in mentor relationship, 97–98

Field, Ron, 117

First person singular and advice giving,

121–122

Focusing. See also Auditioning; Partnership

style

brief description, 6