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Building a Single-Parent Community

by Zoë Desmond

Quick Takes

  • Accept that it’s OK to feel lonely sometimes
  • Ask your friends to introduce you to other solo parents
  • Seek out support and reassurance from online communities
  • Say hello first
  • Ask for help when you need it

When my son Billy turned one, my relationship with his father broke down and we separated. It was a tough time. I was grieving the dream of the family unit I thought I had created for myself and my son, and despite being blessed with lots of great friends, I found my new single-parent experience to be incredibly lonely. I began to dread the weekends when all I could see were others having family time, and not knowing any other single parents, I felt like I was the only single ...

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