9.
Listen well
In this chapter you will learn:
- Why listening is so important.
- How to stay focused and listen.
- What to do if you are distracted.
- What to do if they are distracted.
- What key words to listen for.
- How to interpret the way they are saying it.
Why is listening so important?
As a negotiator, you need to be a good listener. In fact, I would say you need to be a really good, first-class listener.
You need to understand clearly where the other party is coming from: what they want, what they do not want, their agendas, their hidden agendas and everything there is to know that can be known.
If you are really determined to become a serious negotiator, then first you must become a serious listener.
You will be a better negotiator ...
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