If you have a query that's running slowly, the first thing to try is running it with
EXPLAIN before the statement executing. This displays what's called a query plan, the list of what's expected to happen when that query is executed. If you instead use
EXPLAIN ANALYZE before the statement, you'll get both the estimation describing what the planner expected, along with what actually happened when the query ran. Note that this form will actually execute the statement as if you'd run it manually. Consider the following statement:
EXPLAIN ANALYZE DELETE * FROM t;
This is not only going to show you a query plan for deleting those rows, it's going to delete them—that's the only way to know for sure how long actually executing the plan ...