10 The Secret of Powerful Connection

No man is an island, entire of itself; every man is a piece of the continent.

John Donne Poet, priest, lawyer

‘I knew I shouldn't have come here. I’m booking a flight home…'

My girlfriend and I had arrived in Maui the night before, and she'd been intoxicated by the beautiful scents, warm breeze and tropical vibe. We'd been feeling close and connected, but the next morning she was cold, panicked and distant. She said, ‘I don't like it. Hawaii's not what I expected. I knew I shouldn't have come here. I’m booking a flight home'.

I could see exactly what was going on. She was feeling agitated and uncomfortable. Her feelings were letting her know about THOUGHT in the moment, but she mistakenly believed they ...

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