chapter 5

Week one: Engage

Your social skills and the ability to connect authentically

Week one, day one

Various people, facing each other, interacting.

This week is about engaging. Engaging with people should be a natural and instinctive thing. On one level it is, but this is a masterclass so it’s not about connecting on a surface level. You will learn with practice and application the skills to become captivating and magnetic. You don’t have to be an outgoing extrovert to shine – on the contrary introverts can be equally as engaging in a different way. Barack Obama is a perfect example of an introvert who had you hanging on to every word.

This isn’t about acting a part or pretending to be ...

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