The Assertive Bill of Rights

  1. I have the right as a human being to have needs, and my needs are as important as the needs of others. I have the right to ask (not demand) that other people respond to my needs.

  2. I have the right as a human being to have feelings and form opinions. Furthermore, I have the right to express these in ways that respect the feelings and opinions of others.

  3. I have the right to expect respect from other people. It is incumbent upon me to also show the same respect for others. Respecting others does not mean that I allow them to take advantage of me or disregard my needs.

  4. I have the right to choose whether, in a particular situation, I want to or can reasonably meet other people's needs or expectations.

  5. I have the right to say ...

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