When you enter a mindset, you enter a new world.
Carol S. Dweck
Sophie put the flowers into a large vase and brought them back to the living room. Their color and fragrance lifted my spirits.
“Are you okay?” she asked, turning to me.
“I’m actually fine,” I assured her, knowing that my reddened eyes were sending a different message. “It isn’t easy for me to look at how often I go Judger. Lately, I think it has completely taken over my internal climate. So please go on. What you’re saying is all very helpful. I know I can’t just be thinking about myself. I have to think about my kids, their grades, and their test scores—not to mention whether they’re really learning, or accomplishing anything worthwhile.” ...