The Art of Persuasion (Collection)

Chapter 11. How to argue with those you love

Arguments with partners and the extended family can be painful and complex. They can also go on for years! There’s probably no area in life where it’s more important to argue well. Perhaps it’s of some comfort that you’ll have plenty of practice at this! I don’t know a couple who find they never seem to argue enough.

Getting it wrong

Shamrita:   “You’ve left your socks lying around again.”

Suni:         “Well, I’m not stopping you picking them up. And while ...”

Shamrita:   “What do you expect me to be, your servant?”

Suni:         “Well, you seem to like treating me like a child.”

Shamrita:   “If you grew up a bit I wouldn’t need to!”

Suni:         “Typical, I do all the work and bring in all the ...