CHAPTER FIVE

Thoughts, Words, Actions

THE THREE AREAS YOU CONTROL

Stop letting people who do so little for you control so much of your mind, feelings, and emotions.

WILL SMITH

You are, no doubt, overflowing with brilliant ideas for how others could improve their functioning. After all, much of what goes on out there is inexplicably incompetent.

We expend sooo much energy correcting others within our own minds. It’s as fruitless as pouring a newly frothed latte down the drain. Ain’t gonna wake you up.

Focus your attention on fine-tuning yourself rather than futilely attempting to fix others, change the barometric pressure, or alter reality. I’ve got news for you, sugarplum. You’re off the hook. Because there are precisely three things you control: ...

Get The Cactus and Snowflake at Work now with the O’Reilly learning platform.

O’Reilly members experience books, live events, courses curated by job role, and more from O’Reilly and nearly 200 top publishers.