Chapter 11Talk to Yourself instead of Listening to Yourself
The carpenter continued. “I once met a man, Dr. James Gills, who completed six double Ironman triathlons. That means he swam for 2.4 miles, rode his bike for 112 miles, and ran 26.2 miles. Then 24 hours later, he did it again. He was the only person on the planet to do this six times. When I asked him how he did it, he paused for a moment and said, ‘I have learned to talk to myself instead of listening to myself. If I listen to myself I hear all the negative thoughts, all the complaints, all the fears, all the doubts, and all the reasons why I shouldn’t be able to finish the race. But if I talk to myself I can feed myself with the words and encouragement I need to finish the race.’ He told me he would memorize and quote scripture, and this kept him going and fueled him toward the finish line.
“How about you? Are you talking to yourself or listening to yourself?” asked the carpenter.
“I’ve definitely been listening to myself lately.”
“And if you were trying to complete an Ironman triathlon with this state of mind, what do you think you would have done by now?”
“I would have given up.”
“So what do you need to do from now on?”
“I need to talk to myself and feed myself with the words and encouragement I need to keep moving forward.”
“Exactly,” said the carpenter as he walked toward the front door to leave, knowing their work was done for the day. “Negative thoughts are the nails that build a prison of failure. Positive ...