Every time you use, and particularly say out loud, the word “should” you are setting yourself up for extended pain, reducing your own choices and forcing yourself to take action that might not even be part of your true journey.
This Impact Note provides a way of shifting to a more powerful mindset. It also reminds you that “should-ing” your staff and colleagues often creates a negative push-back.
Through these Impact Notes, I often highlight specific words that carry within them immense power; power to drive you forward or power to drive you down.
This note shines a light on “should”, which I believe is one of the more damaging ...