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Transform Your Life

Book Description

Penny Ferguson's story is an amazing one. Abandoned as a baby, teased and bullied at school, emotionally and physically destroyed by not one, not two, but three abusive marriages, she found herself on the cusp of fifty, broke, alone, and in despair. Taking stock of her circumstances, she resolved to turn her life around, to break the patterns that had governed her life so far, and to stop wasting her life. In order to change her life, she had to change herself. Penny succeeded in her aims, and is now a successful and happy leadership and team building consultant. Over ten thousand people have attended training courses run by Penny Ferguson Ltd., with an amazing proportion of attendees attesting that they have experienced real change in their lives for the better as a direct result. Transform your life encapsulates the life-changing ideas Penny has passed on to people through her consultancy and training courses. It can inspire you to work out a vision for your personal and business life, and set out clearly an action plan to achieve it.

Table of Contents

  1. Cover Page
  2. Title Page
  3. Copyright Page
  4. Table of Contents
  5. Brilliant features
  6. Introduction
  7. 1. Who you are is what you get
  8. 2. Are you two people?
  9. 3. Did someone say something?
  10. 4. The impact of appreciation
  11. 5. Behind the image
  12. 6. Creating our own reality
  13. 7. What do I think about me?
  14. 8. I can do it – I can!
  15. 9. How will they cope without you?
  16. 10. It’s a team game
  17. 11. Who’s pulling your strings?
  18. 12. What made you do that?
  19. 13. Do they ask for it?
  20. 14. What comes first?
  21. 15. Whose idea is it anyway?
  22. 16. Please, let me think!
  23. 17. Encourage to inspire
  24. 18. Liberate your thinking
  25. 19. Boost your thinking power
  26. 20. Don’t live your life by accident
  27. 21. It’s your choice
  28. 22. Who is in charge of your life?
  29. 23. Talk in their terms
  30. 24. Why plan your life?
  31. 25. When feelings hamper thinking
  32. 26. Am I hearing you?
  33. 27. Tell me how I’m doing
  34. 28. Do I have that right?
  35. 29. But I asked you to listen to me
  36. 30. Young people can think like giants too
  37. 31. What will become of us?
  38. 32. Your moment of choice
  39. 33. Appreciating diversity
  40. 34. Thinking quality? Think equally
  41. 35. We are what we decide to be
  42. 36. Learning from mistakes
  43. 37. What else do I think about me?
  44. 38. Love is a choice
  45. 39. Be careful how you say it
  46. 40. Laughter is the best medicine
  47. 41. Every day counts
  48. 42. Are we all leaders?
  49. 43. How we view the world
  50. 44. How do I persuade them?
  51. 45. No more indecision
  52. 46. No, no and no
  53. 47. Egg timer peace
  54. 48. A problem or an opportunity?
  55. 49. Involve them all
  56. 50. So where am I at?
  57. 51. Living in the moment
  58. 52. Keeping it going
  59. Bonus ideas
  60. The end
  61. Acknowledgements