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Dual-Career Couples and Identity

by Erin Reid

Quick Takes

Forget “breadwinner”; a modern identity of “breadsharer” is emerging for men in heterosexual partnerships.

  • Breadsharers value each partner’s right to pursue their professional and personal goals
  • Breadwinners view their wives’ careers as having little value, even when their spouse’s salary is higher than their own
  • Men’s careers are shaped by their interpretation of the status and value of their wives’ careers
  • Breadsharers are open to possibilities for their own careers outside the pathway their firms had set for them

Professional careers are notorious for demanding that people be single-mindedly devoted to work. It’s a demand that is often especially acute for men, who face rigid ...

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