How Your Mind Stresses You Out and What You Can Do about It
In This Chapter
Scuba-diving through your thoughts and feelings
Checking out the many ways your mind causes stress
Using mediation to ease your stress and suffering
For thousands of years, pundits and sages in both the East and West have been saying that problems originate in the mind, that your mind by itself “can make a heaven of hell and a hell of heaven” (as English poet John Milton put it). But how, you may be wondering, can this cute little truism help you when you don’t know what to do about it? “Sure, my mind’s the problem,” you may say, “but I can’t exactly have it surgically removed.”
You can begin by becoming familiar with how your mind works. As you may have noticed, it’s a rather complex assortment of thoughts, ideas, stories, impulses, preferences, and emotions. Without a diagram, it can be as difficult to negotiate as the jumble of wires and hoses under the hood of your car.
When you have a working knowledge of how your mind is structured, you can begin to notice how those thoughts and feelings distort your experience and keep you from achieving the happiness, relaxation, effectiveness, or healing ...