Step 2Realize the Consequences

Questions to get you started:


How well do you know yourself?

Who knows you better than you know yourself?

“I don’t have the foggiest idea,” my client said to me. He had just finished telling me about a fabulously kindhearted and helpful thing he had done for one of his employees. I then asked him, “How do your actions look to her?” I asked this because his wonderful action was met by his employee with anger and resentment. When he told me he didn’t “have the foggiest idea,” it was clear that he saw his actions only through the lens of his own intentions.

All he had done was ask one of his star associates for ...

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