1. THE ACCOUNTABILITY DILEMMAMANAGING THE DILEMMAIDEA 1: RECOGNIZE THAT YOU ARE ON THE HORNS OF A DILEMMAIDEA 2: CALL THE DILEMMA BY ITS PROPER NAMEIDEA 3: LEAD BETTERIDEA 4: LOOK TO YOUR FOLLOWERS2. THE RISK DILEMMATHE DILEMMATHE TRUTH ABOUT CONSEQUENCESTHE RISK CONUNDRUMTHE HAZARDSMANAGING THE DILEMMA—AND THE CONUNDRUMIDEA 1: AVOID BEING TRAPPED BY ABSOLUTESIDEA 2: THINK BETTER ABOUT HAZARDS, RISKS, AND HOW TO MITIGATE CONSEQUENCES3. THE INVESTIGATION DILEMMAMANAGING THE INVESTIGATION DILEMMAIDEA 1: RECOGNIZE THIS DILEMMA WHEN YOU FACE ITIDEA 2: INDEPENDENCE HELPSIDEA 3: MAINTAIN YOUR PERSPECTIVEIDEA 4: BE PREPARED4. THE SYSTEM DILEMMAWHERE’S THE DILEMMA?THE IMPLICATIONSMANAGING THE SYSTEM DILEMMAIDEA 1: RECOGNIZE THE DILEMMAIDEA 2: THINK LIKE A PARENTIDEA 3: THINK CRITICALLY5. THE MIDDLE DILEMMATHE MIDDLE DILEMMA AND MANAGING SAFETYABOUT REALITYMANAGING THE DILEMMAIDEA 1: DON’T HIDE THE TRUTHIDEA 2: PRESENT REALITY BETTERIDEA 3: THERE IS POWER IN NETWORKING WITH PEERSIDEA 4: REMIND THOSE AT THE TOP WHAT’S AT STAKE6. THE LEADER DILEMMATHE DILEMMAMANAGING THE DILEMMATHE LAST WORD ABOUT “BEING ON THE HORNS”