THE BUDDY SYSTEM: ALLIES AND MENTORS

Recently, while facilitating a leadership development workshop for a group of manufacturing leaders, I (Kelly) shared my first day of work story. After graduating with my degree in mechanical engineering and taking a job with Hewlett-Packard (HP), my manager greeted me with some of the most valuable words I have ever received. “I’m going to let you make mistakes,” he said. As I shared these words with those in the classroom, I could see their eyes grow wide with surprise. “Your boss said that to you on the first day of work?” someone exclaimed. And I continued sharing what he told me. “You have to have failures to learn. I won’t let you make massive mistakes, but you will have space to make mistakes.” This ...

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