The New Rule: Proceed Until Apprehended
We like Helen Mets-Morris's story because it drives home a fundamental lesson about assertiveness. It may seem obvious that we need to step forward and lobby for the opportunities we want, but the reality is that many of us expect doors to open based on our hard work and track record. Not so. Mets-Morris learned the lesson early on.
The New Rules
1. Don't wait for permission.
2. Make things happen.
3. Fake it 'til you make it.
Don't Wait for Permission
There are plenty of instances in life when proper protocol entails obeying the rules. However, there are many other times when you need to give yourself the green light to proceed.
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