There are things that we don’t want to happen but have to accept, things we don’t want to know but have to learn, and people we think we can’t live without but have to let go of.


When we fall in love we invest all of our hopes and dreams in our beloved, we give our hearts away and invest huge amounts of time and energy in our partnerships. We want our love to last for ever. So it’s no wonder that relationship break ups can be one of the most painful and traumatic events in our lives. Even when our expectations are hopelessly unrealistic, we can still feel deeply disappointed and hurt when our partner doesn’t meet our needs or make ...

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