Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don’t resist them – that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like.

Lao-Tse, philosopher and founder of Taoism

Whenever we start a new relationship we bring our personal history with us. Some of us may feel that we’ve wiped the slate clean, let the past go and moved on by the time we meet someone new, while others may still bear the scars of a broken heart. However many times we may have loved and lost, what’s important is how we come through these experiences and our attitude towards them.

The end of a relationship, as we ...

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