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using your arms to swing and not getting enough power behind the
bat with your wrists.’’
Telling someone they were ‘‘rude’’ and that they need to be
‘‘more polite’’ is about as useful as telling a batter he missed the ball
and that he should hit it from now on. Coaching must include detail
in order to be useful. Early in this chapter I asked you to write down
two examples of behaviors you observed recently, one that you liked
and one that needs improvement or correction. Are your examples
specific enough to understand or are they global and nonspecific
labels, leaving room for your associates to misunderstand what you
meant to say?
DESCRIBING PERFORMANCE IN
NEED OF IMPROVEMENT
When you provide corrective feedback, you must describe what as-
pect of performance was either below standards or could be im-
proved. You must also provide a clear description of what the person
needs to do to improve. ‘‘Don’t be that way’’ is not good enough.
Getting to specifics is not as simple as it might seem. In manage-
ment training events, I have to do a great deal of coaching to get
participants to be as specific and concrete in their language as they
need to be. This takes practice. You’ll find exercises in the Skill De-
velopment section at the end of this chapter. Please do them. The
time you invest will be more than worth it when you start applying
the coaching model presented in Chapter 7.
Look at the following list of examples. Each label is followed by
an example of a more descriptive example a coach might want to
address. But each label could be followed up by any number of dif-
ferent but equally specific examples. As you look at each example,
pause for a moment and think about your own associates. If you
were to coach someone about these areas of performance, what spe-