Appendix AWhere Do You Stand?A Self-Assessment for Measuring Your Accountability Conversation Skills


To measure your skill level and see how this book can best serve your needs, candidly review the following statements. Check “yes” if they apply to you. Check “no” if they do not.

A self-scoring version of the following assessment is available at There you’ll also find tools to assess how well your family, team, and organization handle accountability conversations.

Choose What and If


Master My Stories

Describe the Gap

Make It Motivating

Make It Easy

Stay Focused and Flexible

Agree ...

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