"We are each gifted in a unique and important way. It is our privilege and adventure to discover our own special light."
When you go to a funeral, do you ever find yourself thinking about your own funeral, how many people would come and who would be there? If you don't end up dismissing these thoughts as morbid or depressing, do you ever think about the funeral in a bit more detail and imagine what people would be saying about you? What do you think your family, your mates and your work colleagues would say about you? Stop for a second and consider this.
Beyond the usual comments about being great fun, always standing your round and being a good husband/wife/dad and so on, do you think anyone would be ...