Tools for Managing Difficult Interactions

MANAGING DIFFICULT INTERACTIONS
Finding the Source of the Difficulty
Use this worksheet to help you isolate the sources of difficult interactions you’re experiencing with someone at work.
How does your perception of the situation differ from the other person’s?
How might the other person’s motivations differ from yours?
What do you find difficult about the other person’s work style?
What do you find difficult about the other person’s communication style?
Describe the issue at hand. What are your and the other person’s positions and interests regarding this issue?
What experiential, cultural, or other differences may be contributing to the problem?
Bottom line—what conclusions ...

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