Chapter 5

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Commitment

REFLECT on the Attributes of the Non-Negotiable to Develop Your Soft Traits
LEARN from the Failing Up Chronicles and Create Your Hard Results
DISCOVER Opportunities Earned

If you could kick the person in the pants responsible for most of your trouble, you wouldn’t sit for a month.

—Theodore Roosevelt

Reflecting on the Attributes of the Non-Negotiable: The Meaning of Failing Up

As we make and keep commitments, even small ones, we establish an inner integrity that gives us the self-control, courage, and strength to accept responsibility for our lives. Commitment begins with becoming accountable.

One of my first humbling experiences came early in my life, when I learned the value of commitment by failing in some important areas. It taught me that I was capable of achieving a measure of success on my own, but that nothing compares to winning as a team. So many leaders work hard and have good intentions but still find themselves alone.

This is my story of standing alone on the mountain of regret and how I discovered the courage to face it and change what I valued in life. The metrics are simple for this Non-Negotiable: Commitment is an all-or-nothing game.

Failing Up Chronicles: Winning, Losing, and Learning the True Meaning of Commitment

My three summers as a salesman taught me lessons not only in perseverance in the face of adversity, but also in the importance ...

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