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Yellow Mask
To me, the face in this sculpture is Will, Courtney’s
son. This piece was done in about 2008, and the
expression on Will’s face is just how he always looks
to me.
When I first met Courtney, Will was about 4 and I was
30. Despite my age, I hadn’t really spent a lot of time
with kids. I’d been a student, I’d been a lawyer, and
I had just declared to the world that I’d become an
artist. But I wasn’t a father or uncle, and few of my
friends in the city had started families. I was leading a
simple and self-indulgent life of bachelor bliss when
along comes this beautiful woman and her three
equally beautiful children, Delaney, Blair, and Will.
Early in our relationship, I watched Will while
Courtney ran some errands. The last time I’d spent
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any real time with a four-year-old, I was probably
one myself. So what did I like doing when I was
that age? I recalled that I really liked Schoolhouse
Rock!. So Will and I sat down and watched back-to-
back-to-back episodes. We sang “Three Is a Magic
Number” and “A Noun Is a Person, Place, or Thing.”
We learned about the words and, but, and or during
“Conjunction Junction.” We oohed and aahed at
the cigar-chomping, pool hall–hustling fat cat in
“Naughty Number Nine.” After a couple of hours
thedoor opened, and Will rushed out and said,
“Mom, I know what an adjective is!”
I was feeling pretty good about my parenting skills
right then. I was thinking that, maybe with enough
DVD box sets, I could really master this thing. I had
alot yet to learn, and Will taught me so much.
Ten years on, it takes more than a rerun of a ’70s
kids’ program to hold Will’s attention. He lives with
us in Los Angeles and goes to high school, plays
soccer, talks in monosyllabic grunts, and does all the
usual teenage boy stuff. He’s also a pretty good artist
himself, and he loves all things film. Unsurprisingly, he
holds no interest in LEGO creations whatsoever.
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