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Maslow in an Orchid World
Especially in a post-pandemic world, we need a strong sense of belonging …
—Assistant Principal
Truly being seen is different from being seen. For the child in the room, it’s about survival. “Am I safe here? Will the teacher do something unexpected that will make me look stupid?” The reptilian brain is screaming survival. “I am a sliver of a second from freeze, fight, or flight. These are spaces I inhabit every day. It’s the only place I feel comfortable. I don’t like it when teacher makes me step outside my comfort zone; I don’t like it when other kids can so quickly and easily show their insecurities and allow themselves to be vulnerable in public. Please don’t ‘push’ me. I’m in the room, but do you see me for ...
