Chapter 29

Structured Silence

A crucial element in a conversational rhythm is silence. Yet lulls in a discussion are often experienced as awkward and interpreted to mean that nothing is happening. Structured Silence is a way to help people become comfortable with silence as an integral part of any discussion session.

Purposes

  • To embed periods of silence in discussions so that participants feel comfortable during these lulls
  • To keep discussion grounded and focused by introducing regular opportunities for people to identify important points and new questions
  • To give those who have not contributed an opportunity to shape the conversation

How It Works

  • Every fifteen minutes or so the facilitator asks people to pause for two to three minutes ...

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