CHAPTER EIGHT
REVERSING YOUR PROCESS
The oak sleeps in the acorn, the bird waits in the egg,and in the highest vision of the soul a waking angel stirs.Dreams are the seedlings of realities.
—James Allen
 
Chuck sat in the conference room fidgeting and nervously asking for “coaching” about a problem he had with Jodie, the young woman he was teamed with on a customer appreciation project.
“My problem is what Jodie did to me last week,” Chuck said. “She hurt me and disappointed me by taking our written proposal to the boss and acting as if it was all hers.”
We sat with Chuck for a while as he described his alarming and disappointing outer world and its untrustworthy inhabitants. We then guided him back to the moment. How would you like to feel ...

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