Chapter 16. The Problem and Opportunity of Memory in Influence

"Buyers are liars."

Having spent half of my life in the world of sales and marketing, I can share with you that a lot of people believe that to be true.

Reality? Maybe . . . but maybe not.

And the same thing that opens the door to their mind . . . opens the gate to you being able to shape your mind for wealth, happiness, and more of what you want in life.

Analyze this with me:

Forty-five first-year psychology students were told three stories about their grade-school experiences and asked about their memories of them. Two of the accounts were of real grade-three-to-six events recounted to the researchers by the participant's parents. The third event was fictitious, but also attributed to the parents. It related how, in first grade, the subject and a friend got into trouble for putting Slime (a colorful gelatinous goolike toy made by Mattel that came in a garbage can) in their teacher's desk.

The participants were encouraged to recall the events through a mix of guided imagery and mental context reinstatement—the mental equivalent of putting themselves back in their grade-school shoes. Half of the participants were also given their real first-grade class photo, supplied by their parents.

So a bunch of psych students are told that this event happened when they were kids. Half of the psych students were shown photos of their first-grade class picture. Make sense?

  • Question One: Estimate the percentage of students who literally believed ...

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