This person can be quite charismatic and funny, so it is easy to get sucked in time and time again and give her the benefit of the doubt. She has a knack for always asking for forgiveness while still belittling the person. I've decided over the years that she is essentially a manipulative, power-hungry, dishonest, unethical game player. She is not someone I can trust in any situation. She puts people in positions where they feel that they are going against one another, and she does it simply for her own self-interests. She makes it look like she strives for calmness, but in reality seems to get pure enjoyment out of chaos and anxiety-producing situations.