The following are some of my favorite books, authors, and websites on the topics of conflict, communication, aikido, and personal and organizational effectiveness. I wish you well in your exploration and practice.


Crum, Thomas. The Magic of Conflict. New York: Simon & Schuster, 1987.

Crum, Thomas. Journey to Center. New York: Simon & Schuster, 1997.

Crum, Thomas. Three Deep Breaths. San Francisco: Berrett-Koehler, 2006.

Edmondson Amy C. Teaming. San Francisco: John Wiley & Sons, 2012.

Fisher, Roger, and William Ury. Getting to Yes. New York: Penguin Books, 1991.

Goldsmith, Marshall. Triggers. New York: Penguin Books, 2015.

Goleman, Daniel. Emotional Intelligence. New York: Bantam Books, 1997.

Kahane, Adam. Power and Love: ...

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