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CHAPTER 7STRENGTHENING FAMILY, FRIENDS, AND COMMUNITY

For many of us, family is one of the most important life buckets—if not the most important. Family is usually defined by having a spouse and children, as well as an extended family of siblings, parents, and other relatives. For others, family also includes people who are so close to them, the word friend just doesn't suffice. Our personal lives are further enriched by having enduring friendships and a sense of community. These people and connections give meaning to our lives, providing us a center. In this chapter, we'll approach family, friends, and community like concentric circles, one encircling the other. At the core is family, as you can see in figure 7.1.

MY FAMILY LIFE

For me, no matter how much time and attention I devote to other areas, family is the center of my life. It's been that way from as far back as I can remember. My parents and grandparents were my first and most important teachers; they taught me values such as the importance of faith, respecting everyone, doing the right thing, and always doing my best.

Figure 7.1 For many of us, our personal relationships are defined by family, friends, and community, which are concentric circles—with family at the core.

One of my most vivid childhood memories was getting all As on my first-grade report card. My dad was so excited and proud. “I have to show this ...