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Between You and AI
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Between You and AI

by Andrea Iorio
November 2025
Beginner to intermediate
256 pages
6h 6m
English
Wiley
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4Reperception

HAVE YOU EVER tried pouring water into a glass that’s already full? It overflows. Nothing new can enter. No one with common sense would expect a different outcome.

And yet this is how most of us go through life—our minds crowded with assumptions, opinions, and certainties. The only way to truly make space for the new is to first empty the cup—and no story captures this better than this classic Buddhist parable:

Centuries ago, a professor visited a Zen master, eager to learn the meaning of life. The master began pouring tea into the professor’s cup, filling it to the brim. Yet, he continued pouring, letting the tea overflow onto the table. Unable to contain himself, the professor exclaimed, “Master, why do you keep pouring when the cup is already full?”

The master replied calmly, “Like this cup, your mind is already full—full of your own opinions and assumptions. How can I show you the meaning of life unless you first empty your cup?”

This classic Zen parable illustrates perfectly an extremely important concept, namely the “beginner’s mindset.” The Buddhist monk Shunryu Suzuki once said, “If your mind is empty, it is ready for anything; it is open to anything. In the beginner’s mind, there are many possibilities, but in the expert’s mind, there are few.” The beginner’s mind, or Shoshin, is often described as a mental state free from assumptions and rigid beliefs—a clean slate open to embracing new possibilities.

Ironically, this centuries-old wisdom has never ...

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