19. Three Patterns of Relationship20. One Wakes, the other Sleeps21. The Top/Bottom Dance of Blind Reflex22. It Takes Two to Tango . . . or does it?23. Let’s Declare Bankruptcy: Transforming the Top/Bottom Dance24. The Universal Civics Course25. The End/Middle/End Dance of Blind Reflex26. Daniel: Mutant in the Middle Space27. Organizations in the Middle28. The Provider/Customer Dance of Blind Reflex29. Overcontrol or Transformation: The Mutant Customer30. The Unfairly Judged Professor (And the Righteously Done-to Students)31. Abused and Misused in the Space of Service32. The Web of Relationships33. How to Clean Sidewalks: It’s a Matter of being34. Resistance or the Sound of the Old Dance Shaking35. How We Can See the DanceSummary