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Rules of Work, 5th Edition
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Rules of Work, 5th Edition

by Richard Templar
June 2022
Beginner
296 pages
4h 11m
English
Pearson Education
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RULE 81

Know when to keep your opinions to yourself

It’s very easy to have opinions. We all have them. Trouble is knowing when to keep them to yourself and when to express them. The reason most people don’t know when to shut up is that they think their opinion:

  • •counts for something
  • •has an audience
  • •is important
  • •will make a difference
  • •will make them seem clever/intelligent/effective
  • •will win them approval/love/attention

All of these, of course, are the wrong reasons for expressing an opinion. The real reason for expressing an opinion is because you have been asked to. If you are asked, then say what you think. If you ain’t been asked, then shut up.

Your opinion should almost have to be dragged from you. What you have to say is important ...

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ISBN: 9781292439686