CHAPTER FIVE
Resolve Conflicts
Look again at the list of common values that appears in the appendix. I would venture that there is not a single value in the long list that you view as negative. Certainly, you prefer some of them to others. But if you are like most people, you see everything on the list as being—all else equal—a good thing. Each of the more than ten thousand people who have participated in my values workshops claim what others would agree are good values.1
This leads to an important and sometimes uncomfortable implication: Even the people you find yourself in deep disagreement or even conflict with are, at some level, pursuing good values. That doesn’t mean you agree with their actions. It doesn’t mean all values have the same ...
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