Mistake #9My partner is the problem!
And then there is your partner. It is quite possible that your partner is your oldest child and will not take these changes lying down either.
Solution
If you think your partner is the problem, remember that implementing and benefitting from the changes you are about to make will be much easier if you have your partner’s buy-in. Get your partner to read Me First: they might learn something (but maybe pull out the insourcing section on page 139, where I share how to manipulate your partner …). Take the pressure off yourself by discussing with your partner the changes you want to make and, more importantly, how you as an individual, how you as a couple, and how you as a family, will benefit from the new arrangements (the exact solution for this is expanded on in part II).
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