RULE 60
Be nice
It is very easy in the hurly-burly of modern life and the complex sparring of a day-to-day relationship to forget that we are dealing with a real live human being here and not just someone we bounce off as we go along. It is easy to start to take someone for granted, to think we’ve thanked them or praised them or said ‘please’, when instead we ignored them, were rude by the guilty sin of omission, disregarded them and generally behaved like they were pond life by default.
To make the relationship go with a zing, you have to go back to square one and start being courteous again in the old-fashioned sense of the word. You have to reintroduce yourselves to each other as respectful, tactful individuals who are going to start again ...
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