RULE 10
Take control
Do you feel in control of your life? Do you think that fate determines the path we follow, or do you consider it’s down to you to make your own choices? I have no more idea than anyone else which is actually the case, but I can tell you that people who believe that they have control over their lives tend to be happier than those who don’t.
If you already feel in control, that’s great. If you don’t, however, it’s an important thing to work on. Many things in life are indeed out of our control. You can’t determine when your car breaks down,* or whether one of your close family gets seriously ill. You may feel powerless about having to work for an impossible boss. You can’t determine the weather.
Then again, as they say, ‘There’s ...
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