Chapter 13
Dumbo Feathers
When preparing to face uncertainty, it’s important to surround ourselves with helpful people who believe we are up to the task. The premise of the entire field of social psychology is that outcomes are affected as much by our surroundings as by our free will. When we have encouragement from our friends and family, our confidence grows. Thus, who and what we spend time with become either Dumbo feathers—recall the cartoon elephant Dumbo, who gained the confidence to fly by holding on to a “magic feather” (really just an ordinary feather)—or quest destroyers that hold us back from achieving our dreams.
Like many of us, Kate Bezar wondered if she was on the right career track. After working in management consulting for ...
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